You already know how to hold someone through the hardest moment of their life. This is about learning to hold yourself while you keep doing it.
Practice support for death workers who are already doing this work and need the infrastructure to keep doing it without it costing them everything.
You didn't need convincing that this was your calling. You needed someone to tell you the truth about what it costs to build a practice around it — the charging guilt, the marketing discomfort, the exhaustion that feels like proof you care. Below is everything I offer. You don't need to know which one is right yet. That's what the consult is for.
Practice Support
Altar Membership — $147/month, three month minimum
You're not doing this work wrong. You're doing it without the infrastructure that makes it sustainable. That's what we build here. This includes: • Weekly or monthly calls with practitioners who actually understand what you hold • Online portal with resources, session recordings, and workbooks • Telegram community for support between calls • Direct, unsanitized conversations about charging, finding clients, and building a practice around your actual life
Threshold Worker Branding Session — $444
A single 90-minute session to get clear on your brand, your offers, and your positioning, using an intention form you complete beforehand and a process that weaves in Human Design, astrology, and Akashic records. You leave knowing what you actually do, who it's for, and how to say both without flinching.
The Devoted — six to nine months
For the woman who's done waiting to feel more ready. One to two clients maximum, at a time, by application only. This is death work foundations, boundary and burnout work, Akashic and intuitive practice, brand and offer development, and Altar membership for the full length of the container — all in one arc, built around the specific practice you're building.
HOW I CAN SUPPORT YOU
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THE ETHICS AND REALITY OF CHARGING FOR SACRED WORK
Charging guilt isn't a personality flaw. It's the specific, predictable result of doing sacred work inside a culture that taught you sacred and paid don't belong in the same sentence. I help death workers get financially sustainable without pretending the discomfort isn't real. This isn't a pep talk about your worth. It's the actual math, the actual language, the actual conversation you have with yourself right before you say your price out loud.
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FINDING CLIENTS WITHOUT FEELING LIKE YOU'RE MARKETING DEATH
You've made the content. You've posted the thing. Nothing converted, and you're not sure if that's a marketing problem or a sign you shouldn't be doing this publicly at all. It's a marketing problem. I help death workers figure out how to be visible in a field built to make people look away, without turning grief into a sales funnel.
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HOLDING THE WORK WITHOUT LOSING YOURSELF IN IT
Nobody trained you on what to do with what you're carrying after the family leaves the room. Exhaustion isn't proof of devotion. It's usually the first sign the boundary work hasn't started yet. I help death workers build the somatic and practical infrastructure to keep doing this work for years, not just for one hard season.
SUPPORT ACROSS THE ARC OF YOUR PRACTICE
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Just Certified, Standing In The Gap
You finished training and now you're staring at the space between certified and actually practicing. Overwhelmed, under-confident, not sure how to find your first real client. You'll walk away with an actual next step, not another framework to sit on.
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Doing The Work, Undercharging For It
You have clients. You still flinch every time you say your price. You're not sure if you're building a practice or just absorbing everyone else's crisis for free. You'll walk away with the language and the numbers to charge like this is a business, because it is one.
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Ready To Formalize The Brand and the Business
You know what you do. Your website, your offers, and your positioning don't say it yet. You'll walk away with brand clarity built from who you actually are, not a template.
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Ready To Go All In
You know you're called and you're done waiting until it feels safe. You want someone who's built a sustainable death work practice to walk the whole arc with you. You'll walk away with a practice you believe in and the confidence to run it.
WAYS TO START
You don't have to commit to anything big to begin. Most practitioners start with one of these.
Death Curious Masterclass
Free. For the woman who feels pulled toward this work and needs context before she takes a next step.
Free 30-Minute Practice Consult
No cost, Tell me where your practice actually stands. You'll leave with one clear next step.
Doula Certified, Now What? Masterclass
Free. For the woman standing in the gap between certified and actually practicing, not sure how to find clients or build anything real.
À LA CARTE SUPPORT
Support built around exactly what your practice needs, not a one-size container.
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Seven self-paced masterclasses on self-sabotage, the wild feminine, perfectionism, and boundaries, built for the death worker doing her own inner work alongside her client work.
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One standalone session for the death worker who wants to go deeper into her own patterns, gifts, and blocks. Not analysis. Listening for what's actually true underneath the surface pattern.
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For the death worker whose website exists but doesn't convert, or doesn't sound like her anymore. Copy, design, and messaging built by someone who knows this field's sensitivities and what actually converts in it.
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Grief frameworks, ritual training, and other collaborative deep-dives for practitioners who want to bring more into their own client work, including Anatomy of Sorrow and Make It Sacred, co-taught with Lauren of La Mort, plus new classes and events added throughout the year. Sliding scale available on select offerings.
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For organizations and fellow practitioners wanting to bring this work into their rooms. Submit through the inquiry form and it lands with me directly, not in my DMs.
LEARN TOGETHER
Anatomy of Sorrow and Make It Sacred, co-taught with Lauren of La Mort, are ongoing classes for families, caregivers, and the bereaved who want frameworks for grief and ways to bring ritual into death and dying. Sliding scale available.
SLIDING SCALE
I believe end-of-life support should be accessible, not reserved for families who can afford to fall apart. A limited number of sliding scale spots are available for families navigating financial hardship. Reach out directly and we'll figure out what's possible together.
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"I will say fuck, crack a dirty joke, and hold someone's hand while they die, sometimes in the same afternoon."
This work asks you to hold two things that aren't supposed to fit in the same hand: the sacred and the irreverent, the devotion and the invoice, the grief and the dark joke that gets you both through the afternoon. Most training programs give you the first half. Nobody gives you the second.
Building a sustainable death work practice isn't about becoming less devoted to the work. It's about getting honest about what devotion actually costs, and building the infrastructure so it doesn't cost you everything.